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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 02:33

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Is heroin really as good as people say it is?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

California schools are very liberal. Do you think California schools are teaching students to hate Republican views (views on: God, guns, prayer, secure borders, etc.)?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

How do schizophrenia symptoms change throughout the day?

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

This is a real question: Why do a lot of men/boys hate (yes, hate) women that voice their criteria in choosing a partner? Even when the criteria is sane and responsible. Besides it being, sadly, an effective mating strategy, why does it exist?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Which is the worst Bollywood movie you have ever seen and why?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why do women wear less clothes compared to men?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What I need from you?

Why is my coworker suddenly being so mean towards then being nice like nothing happened? She is nice with everyone but me.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ive been pretending to be okay and acting as normal as possible, but Im actually completely heartbroken after a recent breakup. Its painful and really affecting me, to the point where I cant concentrate at work, Ive lost my appetite, I cant sleep, and It feels as if my whole world has been turned upside down. I loved him so much. He said so many cruel things to me and it made me realize he must not have loved me the way I loved him, or he wouldnt have said such horrible things. How do I handle the heartbreak and why cant I accept that he didnt love me and just forget about him?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Making more friends is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.